Meet your award-winning, hella-fun Hudson Valley wedding planner

We Do Events. What DoYou Do?

No, really — we’d love to learn more about you. Because that’s the only way to plan the wedding of your dreams (and no one else’s)

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Now a top-rated, award-winning company, We Do Events serves couples in the Hudson Valley, Catskills, and Poconos region. We’re like the wedding guide we wish we’d had — and now you do.

When our founder, Jilian Becker, was planning her own destination wedding in the Pocono Mountains back in 2016, she noticed a gap in the wedding industry in this pocket of the northeast. So, she decided to fill it.

After a decade-long career spanning entertainment and events at some of North America's largest brands (like Microsoft and Major League Soccer), Jilian launched We Do Events in 2018. Her varied experience with project management, design, and event production has helped her produce dozens of successful weddings since. 

Because we’ve been in your overpriced (yet oh-so-worth-it) wedding shoes.

We’re a full-service wedding planning company for modern, busy couples

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Jilian is the leader behind We Do Events. She created We Do Events after a decade-long career with some of America's biggest brands, including Microsoft and Major League Soccer. Over the past eight years, her team has planned and produced over 100 weddings. Jilian lives in the Hudson Valley with her husband, two young children, and dog. In the summers you can find their family at their cottage in the Pocono Mountains.

Jilian Becker

Founder & Principal Planner

Since 8th grade, Paulina has been part of the hospitality industry in various service roles, spanning from server at El Vez to event planner for non-profits, restaurateurs, and corporate clients. She’s always had a penchant for planning events and bringing people together around food + milestones. Paulina lives in Mt. Airy, Philadelphia with her husband, toddler, and dog. When she’s not working, you can find her sipping on a pét-nat or perusing a vintage store.

Paulina Borchers

Senior Planner

When you hire We Do Events, not only will you get match-made with the best coordinator for you, you’ll also get access to our entire team of professionals, who will work behind the scenes to ensure your event runs without a hitch.

...And those are just our lead Hudson Valley wedding planners.

A few of Jilian’s favorite things

BAKING

My husband and I actually got matching pizza tattoos after our wedding (he has a pie; I have the missing slice)

Pizza

Not just the movie — like, everything about it

Titanic

I love the northeast, too, but home is where the heart is!

The Pacific Northwest

Ask me for my chocolate chip cookie recipe.

“Working with Jillian and Paulina was truly a dream! I don’t know how I could have done it without them. They were both so attentive and thoughtful and truly thought of every little detail to review beforehand. The planning tools and detail checklists they offer are fantastic — I felt like no stone went unturned. Everything went SO smoothly the day of the wedding. I couldn’t believe how perfect it was!” 

“No question the best decision I made throughout the wedding planning process”

–Kayleigh + Scott, married 2022

Wedding Management

Where DIY meets DFY
Here's How

You’ve already begun to plan the perfect day. Now, you want the pros to take it to the finish line.

No. 1

Partial
Planning

Our Most Popular

You want some say in the planning… but you also want someone to keep you on track.

No. 2

Full-Service Planning

The Whole Shebang

You’re ready to put the entire process in the hands of a planner who knows her stuff — and your story.

No. 3

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Do you, too?

Some Things We Care About

Sustainable, low waste events

Women-and-minority-owned businesses

shopping small and local

causes near and dear to our couples

Okay, you can keep your tattoos to yourself. Unless they’d look badass in a wedding photo. In which case we definitely want to know about them.

Tell us about your wedding, your love story, and your most private tattoos

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